I  am not going to do it because I care but when we are ill, she doesn't care: we are annoying her. Simply brushed under the carpet. When we are fine all is well and smile but when we are unwell the love line is suddenly cut off when you need it the most: A kind word from your mother... is simply not there and non existant. Harsh words  you will get plenty: If you are ever ill it is your fault. Point blank. Point Break. Heart Break. If you can't cope with the confession of your own child being unwell at a point in his/her life please do the kindness to use a condom if you do not have a heart to say just a comforting word to your future child in his or her future.